Searching for a Spanker
You are a spankee (you love to be spanked) but you haven’t got a spanker (someone who does the spanking) in your life.
And you want / need a spanking – so much so, it takes over your mind. You can’t concentrate. You keep reliving the last spanking you had – how wonderful it felt – lying over the spanker’s knee, skirt up, knickers down and his hand making contact with your bottom – the sting in the tail.
How do you go about finding that special someone?
Go where the spankos go.
With the Internet these days, it’s so much easier than when I started my search in the 1960’s. Then you would sneak into a ‘sex shop’ hoping no one has seen you.
Once inside, you’d furtively glance at the assortment of magazines on the shelf. You are looking for contact magazines. You’d buy all of them, if possible.
At home in the privacy of your own sanctuary you rip open the bag of magazines and eagerly turn the pages.
These contact magazines had lists of adverts – some people looking for a spanker, others looking for a spankee.
It would be easier if beforehand you had made a list of what you are looking for.
· Male or Female
· Age group
· Are you looking for a spanker or a spankee
· Area (you don’t want to be having to travel hundreds of miles to meet someone)
· If you want a non-smoker be sure to make that clear
· You want someone who is clean and discreet.
So after looking through the lists of adverts and your head is spinning, you have marked a few as being ‘possible’.
You have to send each advertiser a letter (do you remember how we used a pen and paper?) explaining who you are and what you are looking for and what you can offer.
If you have a flattering photo of yourself, be sure to add it. It can speed things up quite a lot.
Your letter is then put into an envelope and sealed, with a box number written on the front of it. Each advertiser has a box number. If you are hoping to contact several people, you will write a separate letter to each one.
The envelopes are put into a larger envelope and addressed to the person who owns the magazine. This person will also expect you to pay a certain amount for each reply. So you’d go to the post office and buy a pile of postal orders and enclose them in the large envelope. Be sure to put enough postage stamps on it and seal it and send off with a hope and a prayer.
Then you wait for the replies.
If you have included a phone number you’d probably get a response sooner than if someone had to rely on the Royal Mail.
Or maybe you would do the advertising – stating who you are looking for. This puts you in the driving seat. Details of how to place your advert will be found somewhere in the magazine. Again you will have to pay for advertising. The owner of the magazine wins both ways.
Not knowing any different, I used the contact magazines for years and sometimes it was hit and miss, but quite often it turned out a huge success.
But now if you have a computer or other device and the Internet, it’s so much easier.
Just Google “Spanking Contact Lists.”
Or you may want to look at websites that are devoted to all things spanking.
Good luck with your search.
When a spankee and a spanker meet, it’s a match made in heaven.
Look out for my next article – “How to Get Your Vanilla Partner to Spank You.”